[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/mami-tati-jsem-gay\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/mami-tati-jsem-gay\/","headline":"Mami, tati \u2013 jsem gay","name":"Mami, tati \u2013 jsem gay","description":"\u017dijeme v dob\u011b, ve kter\u00e9 lid\u00e9, jen\u017e c\u00edt\u00ed hlubok\u00e9 city k osob\u00e1m stejn\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed, ji\u017e nejsou spole\u010densky odsuzov\u00e1ni a fyzicky […]","datePublished":"2019-10-23","dateModified":"2023-05-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/163f6c65c8acab43fa062eaf19866aeb6d6c2adc4d5c2462700a89e6feec77a0?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/163f6c65c8acab43fa062eaf19866aeb6d6c2adc4d5c2462700a89e6feec77a0?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"iriscrr.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a357659_w3847_t1572156603.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a357659_w3847_t1572156603.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/mami-tati-jsem-gay\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":628,"articleBody":"\u017dijeme v dob\u011b, ve kter\u00e9 lid\u00e9, jen\u017e c\u00edt\u00ed hlubok\u00e9 city k osob\u00e1m stejn\u00e9ho pohlav\u00ed, ji\u017e nejsou spole\u010densky odsuzov\u00e1ni a fyzicky trest\u00e1ni. Nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed zkou\u0161kou ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b je p\u0159iznat si, \u017ee jste jin\u00fd nebo jin\u00e1. Lid\u00e9 u\u017e od \u00fatl\u00fdch let maj\u00ed n\u00e1dhernou p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee se jednou zamiluj\u00ed, vezmou se, zalo\u017e\u00ed rodinu a spole\u010dn\u011b tak\u00e9 po\u010dkaj\u00ed, a\u017e je do\u017eenou kone\u010dn\u00e9 dny. Takov\u00e1to p\u0159edstava o rodin\u011b v 21. stolet\u00ed nab\u00edr\u00e1 zcela jinou perspektivu. U\u017e nezbytn\u011b nutn\u011b nemus\u00ed j\u00edt o heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e1ry, n\u00fdbr\u017e i homosexu\u00e1lov\u00e9 mohou za\u017e\u00edt tento \u017eivot.\u00a0\u00a0\tT\u011b\u017ek\u00fd coming outV \u017eivot\u011b gaye \u010di lesby je nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00edm \u00fakolem p\u0159iznat si, kdo vlastn\u011b jsou. A\u017e 78% homosexu\u00e1ln\u00edch p\u00e1r\u016f objev\u00ed svou orientaci ve v\u011bku 12 \u2013 18 let. Ze za\u010d\u00e1tku je to velice tvrd\u00fd boj. Jakmile se s t\u00edmto faktem jedinec sm\u00ed\u0159\u00ed, p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed na \u0159adu to ozn\u00e1mit sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed. Tento proces se naz\u00fdv\u00e1 \u201ecoming out\u201c. Ze za\u010d\u00e1tku je to velice t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, nicm\u00e9n\u011b jakmile \u010dlov\u011bk zjist\u00ed, \u017ee o nic nejde, p\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed se lidem je pak v\u00edce snadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.Kluk nebo d\u011bv\u010de tak\u00e9 t\u00edmto procesem zjist\u00ed, jac\u00ed jsou vlastn\u011b jeho nebo jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9. Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed budou z\u00e1sadn\u011b proti tomu, aby jejich zn\u00e1m\u00fd byl na stejn\u00e9 pohlav\u00ed, se nyn\u00ed zd\u00e1ti b\u00fdt fale\u0161n\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel. Jakmile coming out p\u0159ed p\u0159\u00e1teli a zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi m\u00e1 tento jedinec za sebou, nast\u00e1v\u00e1 ide\u00e1ln\u00ed chv\u00edle to ozn\u00e1mit sv\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm. Je dok\u00e1z\u00e1no, \u017ee mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f zareaguje na tento fakt kladn\u011b, a sv\u00e9ho potomka podpo\u0159\u00ed. Pak jsou tu ale i rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed se s t\u00edm nesm\u00ed\u0159\u00ed a sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b zavrhnou. To se velice podep\u00ed\u0161e na psychice onoho jedince.\u00a0\tJak jednotlivec pozn\u00e1, \u017ee je gay?U ka\u017ed\u00e9ho se to projevuje odli\u0161n\u011b. N\u011bkdo cel\u00e9 sny probd\u00ed nad mu\u017esk\u00fdmi tvary, n\u011bkdo si vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed fantazie a n\u011bkdo jednodu\u0161e d\u00e1 na sv\u00e9 srdce, na sv\u00e9 city. Jedno je nutn\u00e9 si v\u0161ak ujasnit \u2013 homosexualita nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd defekt na psychice, ani ve vychov\u00e1n\u00ed. Mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f se vin\u00ed za to, \u010d\u00edm jejich d\u00edt\u011b je. \u010clov\u011bk se tak narod\u00ed, a nic to nezm\u011bn\u00ed. Zb\u00fdv\u00e1 se pouze s touto pravdou sm\u00ed\u0159it.\u00a0\t\u017divot jako ka\u017ed\u00fd jin\u00fdA\u010dkoliv gay d\u00e1v\u00e1 po milostn\u00e9 a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed str\u00e1nce p\u0159ednost mu\u017e\u016fm a \u017eeny lesb\u00e1m, ned\u011bl\u00e1 to z t\u00e9to bytosti nic odli\u0161n\u00e9ho. Je to \u010dlov\u011bk jako ka\u017ed\u00fd jin\u00fd, a i on nebo ona m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st stejn\u00fd \u017eivot jako b\u011b\u017en\u00fd heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u00e1r. Co se t\u00fd\u010de rodiny, jej\u00ed budov\u00e1n\u00ed je sice komplikovan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ale je ov\u011b\u0159eno, \u017ee i homosexu\u00e1lov\u00e9 se dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed postarat o sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed d\u011bti jako ostatn\u00ed. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b je smutn\u00e9, \u017ee na\u0161e vl\u00e1da vytrvale odporuje n\u00e1vrhu, aby gayov\u00e9 mohli leg\u00e1ln\u011b vstoupit do man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho svazku jako ostatn\u00ed. Man\u017eelstv\u00ed d\u00e1v\u00e1 mnohem v\u00edce benefit\u016f, ne\u017e jak tomu je u registrovan\u00e9ho partnerstv\u00ed. Touto problematikou a ot\u00e1zkami ohledn\u011b man\u017eelstv\u00ed pro v\u0161echny se zab\u00fdv\u00e1 organizace Jsme f\u00e9r.\u00a0Z\u00e1v\u011brem bych r\u00e1d dodal, \u017ee gayov\u00e9 a lesby ne\u0161kod\u00ed spole\u010dnosti takov\u00e9, jak ji zn\u00e1me. Je t\u0159eba se d\u00e1le posouvat, a ne\u017e\u00edt stereotypn\u00edm pohledem na \u017eivot. Nebojte se zm\u011bnit \u017eivot druh\u00fdm. Zajist\u011bte, aby va\u0161i potomci mohli \u017e\u00edt ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kde m\u016f\u017ee existovat l\u00e1ska pro v\u0161echny!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (14 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mami, tati \u2013 jsem gay","item":"https:\/\/www.iriscrr.cz\/mami-tati-jsem-gay\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]